When I said, "I do." I meant it. My example of what marriage was about was based off of what I saw in my Mom and Dad's marriage as I was growing into adulthood. I had no idea what marriage would bring in the reality of my own life. I had no idea that my own marriage would be what it is and would go through what it has gone through. I had no idea that three children would be created, birthed and nurtured in this marriage. I had no idea that I would relocate so often. I have learned as I have lived. Best to enjoy each day and lean on the Lord as He sees fit.
As I went through a cedar chest that houses my wedding dress, veil, shoes, dried bouquet, cake topper, and a few other items, my actual anniversary slipped by without posting about it. More pics to follow.
35 years ago on August 31st, 1974, I would marry my sweetheart and best friend.
Through the years sometimes he would be my sweetheart and sometimes my best friend. Sometimes, his face and voice are as comfortable to me as can be and other times I wonder what surprises we'll have to live through. I have learned what it means to enter into a covenant relationship. I have learned that so many others in this world ignore or are ignorant to what God meant when He said let NO man put asunder what God has joined together. When one is so busy doin' their own thang or holdin' hands with the devil, calamity will come. I would learn that it doesn't always take both husband and wife to break the promises or mistreat one another that cause injury, but would take three to mend, heal and keep the marriage together...husband, wife and Almighty God.
For now, I am in awe that 35 years have passed and we're man and wife.
More to follow,
~Deanna~