BALANCING life's chores with aging takes some skill to pace oneself. I am concerned about keeping up at our age.
What are the things in LIFE to work toward or needed? Necessities change as one ages. Desires may as well. I'd very much like to have this COTTAGE spruced up and comfortable for our old age. The biggest challenge right now is having way too much stuff about us, in the garage and storage units. WAY TOO MUCH DISORDER. Downsizing is a priority as rebuilding the porch is as well. What a HUGE project for us.
Hunny has done so much so far tearing down the old 125 year old porch that was collapsing. We have purchased and transported HOME the replacement parts. Porch posts and spindles. Wood slates. The tear out led to finding the rock foundation underneath collapsing needing rebuilt which wasn't known before the tear out. It was looking like an excavating location.
Our son-in-law helped with jack hammering the concrete steps a few days ago. The huge chunks of concrete need hauled off now. Our Son has been helping to rebuild the foundation with his Pop. Hard work for my men.


LAST NIGHT, we had a Friday night GAMBINO's Mobster Pizza and a Taco Pizza for supper before an evening movie. It's been a HOT minute since we had PIZZA. Enjoyed our Son being with us as company. Hubby fell asleep during the flick being exhausted after working most of the day rebuilding the porch foundation of limestone. They are doing an excellent job on this task. Excellent.
PIZZA TIME.
PLANS FOR THE DAY. This won't be in order. Walk, laundry, buzz to the grocery store for a Sunday pot roast, pay the phone bill, work on front bedroom, wash the little car and possibly vac it out. Plenty for a Saturday.
SEEMS TO BE CONSTANT SHUFFLING TO MAKE OUR COTTAGE WORK FOR US. I shouldn't complain, but I do and it is overwhelming at times. I have to have a workable solution with this dilemma on my hands. Getting a bulky bookcase shuffled to the front room from the Kitchen doesn't seem like it should be a dilemma, but it is getting where the piece can be moved.
Before the Bathroom linen cabinet was created, a wooden book case was being used to hold bathroom toiletries. That bookcase is now resting in the Kitchen holding this and that because the beautiful linen cabinet is finished. Praise God. This book case will temporarily be moved to the front bedroom to hold my stash of quilts before actual floor to ceiling bookshelves are built. The dilemma is in where to go with the this and that which are on the bookcase in the Kitchen and then walking the case to the front bedroom. Where it will sit has to be cleared out so it can go there. This will be tricky as the room is small and full of STUFF that's longing for a place to rest besides where it is presently. REBOOT.
If I clear out the Kitchen cabinet above the stove I could use this space for the this and that. I could temporarily box up the crystal that is in this space. hum. Another shuffle. Boo Hish.
CONTINUED DOWNSIZING. I turned loose of a quilt and a treadmill this past week. Two more things turned loose of. This doesn't sound like much, but every little thing moved out helps to downsize. The treadmill hasn't been used by me in about a year. The quilt went to a young person that needed some bedding.
I believe to downsize, I will box up more of my dolls and wait to display them after the front bedroom bookshelves are built. I can turn loose of more dolls.
If I can just work at these projects, I will be better organized. PART OF THE PROBLEM is that we were not settled before BIG PROJECTS had to be worked on. LIKE A BATHROOM and FRONT PORCH. We weren't planning on rebuilding the front porch until next year, but the columns were sinking into the wood slates as the porch began collapsing right before our eyes. Not desired, but a reality needing taken care of. It seems like the porch columns were fine and in a blink of an eye they began making a descend. sigh.
Doing what I can on a small scale becomes a big thing especially when elderly. Rethinking how to do this all. The actual physical movement/motion has to take place along with the mental thinking. If I just think about it and get nothing moved then it is pointless. The actual physical activity HAS TO TAKE PLACE. End of story.
HOUSE KEEPING/HOME MAKING has to take place while the working environment isn't picture perfect. Working amongst the messes is the way it is. Sometimes I get very overwhelmed with it all.
I believe I will down scale what we have on hand, making sure what we have is of a better quality. Nicer towels and bedsheets. Nice dishes and china. Good pots 'n pans and bakeware plus mixing bowls, etc. Sturdy furniture and good appliances. The Nic-nac stuff will be at a minimum. Same with books, pictures, dolls, collections. None of it can go with me when I leave this earth. I'd rather have my things in order than the mess I have at present. This rest of this year and into 2026, the downsizing will continue as I prepare for an auction or big garage sale in the Spring/Summer. Where are those boxes? My HOBBY for now is this clean-up.
Don't be hasty, but don't be slow either to get things in order. How much time and effort went into gathering STUFF for our estate just to turn loose of it because we don't have the room or need? Being wise at how to turn loose takes effort. Curbing my appetite for STUFF is an actual THING. I think I need to have an Etsy shop or something productive where the extras are sold.
My little bean that I think with gets overwhelmed at times. All this shuffling about at my age is getting to me. Lord, HELP. I can do what needs done. It's unproductive to stall out.
Where do I begin my activities for the day? Laundry is in. I can fold a load of towels and put them away. Bills to write out and get paid. A trip to the grocery store over in a different community. Work some in the front room. A fresh day. Plenty for Saturday.
Dear Lord, I pray that today will be blessed as I have a full load of things to do. May it be done with happiness and joy.
ABOUT 57 degrees outside with clear skies makes for a nice day to go for a walk. I truly need to get my walk in.
Blessings,
~d