Showing posts with label Death. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Death. Show all posts

Monday, February 5, 2018

At Peace





We will be burying my FATHER-IN-LAW in a few days.  43 and a half years he was my other Dad.  Almost a year to the date of my Mother-In-Law's death, he passed away.  I am so tired I cannot see straight.  

I have been going through photos trying to find pictures of him with his Wife, Children, Grandchildren and Great Grandchildren to show at the service.  Pictures of him flying planes he made, model trains, fishing, etc.  A bit overwhelmed. 


This alone is emotional.

Since December 2016, three of our Parents have died.  Three.  
Grieving.  What can I say... I'm grieving.  

My Dad passed in December 2016.  
My Mother-In-Law in January 2017.
My Father-In-Law in February 2018.

The 7 hour drive to Oklahoma was long.  We were able to visit with him the afternoon before he died then attend a Hospice meeting.  He had been fighting Stage 4 Lung Cancer in both lungs.  Visited him the evening before he passed as well.  

My Husband's brother called us the next morning at the Motel to tell us that he thought Dad was dying.  He passed as we were driving to his Home. 

My Brother-In-Law said that when he walked into Dad's bedroom to ask him if he were awake, he said Dad was looking around the room, he gasped and was gone.  Peacefully he went to be with The LORD.

The entire time he was suffering, he never seemed angry, afraid or complained.  After his wife died, he missed her terribly and wanted to die on the anniversary of her death.  This is when he truly wanted to die.  2 days later he departed from this world and entered into Heaven.  He received Christ as a 60 year old man.  He was 87.   

The Hospice Nurses were there before us.  The oxygen tubes had been removed as he was laying in his bed covered with a quilt.  He was gone.  Made his entrance into Heaven.  

There's much to think about.  Much to do. 
Appreciate prayers,
d





Sunday, December 11, 2016

My Daddy

It has been an exhausting week in more than one way.  We as a Family laid my Daddy down.  His funeral was yesterday.  He suffered a horrible stroke on November 25th after we celebrated his 90th birthday on the 12th and said our good-byes on Thanksgiving Day, the 24th.

The last words Dad said to me after I told him I was leaving to go home were, "I'm sorry."  I kissed him farewell.  The next day, I was phoned and informed that he had a serious stroke, was unresponsive and was in the emergency room.  We returned to Marion, KS. to see him lying in a hospital bed.  I learned that when there is a stroke, the part of the brain that is attacked affects the opposite side of the body so Dad's right side of his brain was attacked and his left side of the body affected.

He was unable to speak.  He was quiet, but his eyes spoke volumes.  His right eye was discolored some and that coloring would return.  I was not prepared for what would lie ahead of us as a family and it will take much prayer for me to forgive other family members for how this was all handled and for what was said to me during this difficult time of grieving my Dad's last days on earth.

I am at RETIREMENT COTTAGE today, resting.  A son lies on an air mattress sleeping in our tiny living room.  I fixed some coffee earlier and my dear Husband decided to fix a hardy breakfast.  I am to rest today.  Our Cottage's interior lies in a mess as I have been traveling back and forth to where my Dad was and when I was HOME, I had no energy to work on rearranging and making room for things that need a place.  It means very little to me right this second as I have other things to deal with and have gone through.

d

Friday, August 20, 2010

Ginger and Uncle Will's Overalls


This morning I woke up tired...but I woke up!

I will be attending a Memorial Service for my cousin Ginger this afternoon. Last week-end she passed from her earthly body and entered her heavenly home. 57 years old doesn't sound very old to me these days. She was 57.


She had a hard life. Married and divorced twice. Mother of two. I don't know all her sorrows that she had. Ginger was very kind to me when I visited my Aunt Juanita 20 years ago. I was out visiting my Parents when Mom and I went over to Aunt Juanita's and Ginger was there. This is Ginger's momma.


I was heart sick over some marital pain and Ginger sat beside me on the sofa. She'd placed her arm around me to console me. She knew very well what pain can come from very challenging marriages. She wasn't judgmental...just very, very kind to me.


Today, I will be listening to what will be said about Ginger. Her children were not expecting her to die. They are stunned.


God knows the number of our days. While we are alive may we live lives that are pleasing to God. This is the day we have to live our lives...today. Shall we make it count?


Yes, yes and amen,

~Deanna~




Cousins Ginger, Gena and Greta wearing their Daddy's overalls.

Uncle Will passed away in 2000.

Blog Archive

DAUGHTER'S PIE CRUST RECIPE

Pie Crust Recipe.
With her permission I share her recipe with you.
BLESS your family, friends and your taste buds with this wonderful crust.

Pie Crust Recipe

1 cup flour
3 heaping tablespoons of shortening
A dash of salt
A tiny bit of ice cold water

Mix ingredients together well.
Roll out on wax paper.
Assemble pie.
Spread a little milk on top of crust before baking.

Simply delicious,
d


DECORATING

I knew a very frugal Lady named Edith that shared with me a excellent guideline for decorating. She said with ease, "If your room has clean ceilings, floors, and walls, and the windows have nice curtains, you'll have an attractive room."



John 3:7

“Marvel not that I said unto thee,

Ye must be born again.”

King James Version (KJV)

PSALM 118:17

I shall not die,
but live, and declare
the works of the Lord.

PROVERBS 24:3-4

By wisdom
a house is built,
and through understanding

it is established;
through
knowledge

its rooms are filled with rare

and beautiful treasures.



Lilacs On The Prarie

Lilacs On The Prarie

MEMORY VERSE

MEMORY VERSE

SALVATION

Romans 10:9 King James Version (KJV)

9 That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.

Acts 4:12 King James Version (KJV)

12 Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.

PHILIPIANS 4:13

PHILIPIANS 4:13


THANKSGIVING IN THE MOMENT

THANKSGIVING IN THE MOMENT

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THESE TINY BLESSINGS

HE TOUCHED ME

THESE WORDS CHANGED MY LIFE!

THESE WORDS CHANGED MY LIFE!

ONE OF MY FAVORITE CHILDCARE MOMENTS

ONE OF MY FAVORITE CHILDCARE MOMENTS
CLICK ON PIC TO READ Granny Nanny And A Living Canvas.
"HOME is a wonderful place to LIVE. No matter the size of the rooms, ones HOME is a place to call ones own. I so LOVE my HOME." ~Deanna~

Dining On The Prairie In The Old Stone House

Dining On The Prairie In The Old Stone House
Blue Garland Dishes

Blue Willow Moment On The Prairie

Blue Willow Moment On The Prairie

Why I Decided To Become A Homemaker

Why I Decided To Become A Homemaker
Read All About it Here

PSALM 90:12

SO
TEACH us
to number OUR days,
that we may apply our HEARTS
unto
WISDOM.

HOME HAVEN LILIES ON THE PRAIRIE

HOME HAVEN LILIES ON THE PRAIRIE
LUKE 12: 27 Consider the lilies, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin, yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.

BLUE RIBBON WINNER MEATLOAF

BLUE RIBBON WINNER MEATLOAF

BLOSSOM WHERE YOU ARE PLANTED

BLOSSOM WHERE YOU ARE PLANTED
As long as I live, I will have to continually submit to God's plan for my life. You will be blessed because you turned your life over to God. Be confessing how good God is and tell Him you agree with who He says He is. BELIEVE and watch miracles happen. Be not afraid. ~Deanna

I Love My Husband

I Love My Husband

A Quiet Life

A Quiet Life

FUN FACTS FOR CHANDYS

FUN FACTS FOR CHANDYS
SELECTING THE CORRECT SIZE CHANDY TO USE IN A ROOM MADE EASY. FORMULA MEASUREMENTS: Measure the room's height and width. Add together the numbers. Example: 8' x 10' room is 8 plus 10= 18" Use a 18" wide chandy. OR Take width of room calculating 2" for every foot. Example: 15' wide room. Take 15 times 2 = 30. Room needs 30" wide chandy. Standard distance between the bottom of the chandelier to the top of the table is 30 inches. When hanging the chandelier, make sure to hang it at the proper height. The bottom of a chandelier over a dining table or kitchen island should hang 30 to 32 inches above the top of the table or island. Most rooms call for at least 7 feet of space between the bottom of the chandelier and the floor.
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HOME SWEET HOME

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WISHES

NO MATTER HOW BADLY YOU WISH with all your might that the something devastating that happened in your life hadn't happened and want so badly to go back in time to prevent it from happening...it isn't humanly possible to do this. You can't change the fact that it happened. IT DID. But JESUS can change the MEANING of what happened to you and give you PEACE. He can show you the way in which you are to go. God richly BLESS you. ~Deanna